May 19, 2025

Values, Ego, and the Clutter of Tolerating What We Could Change

How values and ego play into tolerating what we could change, and why that creates hidden emotional and mental clutter that keeps us stuck.

In this episode, I explore how tolerating situations we could change is actually a hidden form of clutter — mental and emotional clutter. I share a personal story about a time I was stuck in tolerating: why I stayed, what kept me stuck, and how I finally got out of it.

I also touch on the difference between tolerating and accepting — because when a situation can’t be changed, it’s not about tolerating anymore. That’s where we either resist and stay stuck, or we accept our powerlessness, let go, and make space for more peace.

If that’s the kind of clutter you’re dealing with, the kind that’s messy on the inside and so hard to untangle alone, that’s exactly the work I do with my clients.

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This is my invitation for you to come on the podcast for a safe, supportive on-air conversation (anonymous if you wish) around your particular chaos, one pain point, and to receive my insights, support and coaching around it. 

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